Sunday, May 13, 2018


Reflections on the Eighth Week of Spring – Reinventing the Charm
Raffle Quilt with Border Pinned to Right Side

My quilt guild has a reputation for bickering (though most people use a different adjective starting with “b”). Each member is exotic and creative in her own way―a delight to chat or work with. But stitch us together for a business meeting? Sheesh! We form one crazy quilt.
    Gail, founder of the Country Charms Quilt Guild and owner of Homespun Treasurers where the guild meets, announced, “You can’t put on a show with twenty-one people.”
    Pat, another veteran, agreed. “It’s too much work. We’ve put on enough shows.”
    Eyebrows of newer members rose.
    Linda, president because no one else wanted the job, started a campaign. “If we do neat projects, people will see how much fun we have. They’ll want to join.”
    “Don’t let them come to a business meeting,” someone mumbled.
    Linda advertised fun nights on Facebook.
    Two people joined. Eight more left. We had seventeen members.
    “We can’t have a quilt show now.” Pat shoved her fists against her hips. “We don’t need one anyway.”
    “The community does,” I blurted out. “We give to the community through the quilt show, and I joined the guild because I enjoy the shows.”
    “Too bad.” Pat hit her fist against the table. “We’re too old.”
    But Pat’s fist didn’t tie up the debate. During the next four meetings, we voted on a quilt show with mixed results―no, yes, maybe―and without reaching a quorum. When we voted over the Internet, we got more votes than members.
    Fourteen members attended last October’s business meeting.
    Pat sighed. “Well, we could downsize. Hold the show at Our Lady of Lourdes for one day. Limit the entries to two per person. And I could ask the church ladies to do the food.”
    Her downsizing idea passed. Only Pat and Gail voted no.
Member by member.
Vote by vote.
    “Oh, I’ll be the chair.” Pat said after the vote. “It won’t be that hard.”
    Pooh-pooher Pat, chair of the show? Yikes.
    And I’d given the memorial quilt (See “My Kind of Postmistress” May 7, 2017 blog.) I’d made for Mom to my nephew in Florida. Double yikes. I needed to sew a quilt in six or seven months. Maybe I could manage the twin-size Mansfield Park quilt for my son’s new apartment. I bought fabrics in fall colors―the only input he would give―adapted the blocks for a man, (See “40% Discount for Pirates” November 5, 2017 blog) and followed directions.
Cut by cut.
Square by square.
    At the November meeting, Pat said, “Okay. We’re having a quilt show. You’re all going to help.” She shook her pen at the group. “Who’s going to be chair for the quilt we sew to raffle?”
    “I will,” Gail said before anyone else got a chance. “I’ll find some patterns then you can choose which one to make.”
    At the next meeting, she waited for us with an eight inch high stack of patterns and pattern books. “Look through these. Then vote for the pattern you like best.”
    Gail slid the stack and a piece of paper to me. I set choices with catchy designs yet easy for a group to assemble in front of me. I passed patterns with curves or appliqué to the next person.
    Linda called from across the room, “Vote already and pass the patterns along.”
    I looked up. “I can’t vote until I’ve seen them all. There are twenty.”
    I needn’t have bothered to study the designs. The number of choices diluted the votes. A falling leaf pattern, sewn entirely from two inch squares, received the most votes―three.
    Gail selected fabrics from her store, cut them, and taught us how to make the leaves.
Point by point.
Leaf by leaf.
JW's Falling Leaf Blocks for Country Charms' Raffle Quilt
    Then she announced. “I’m going in for knee surgery. I’ve hired people to open the shop Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. You can work on the quilt then.”
    Great. The quilt chair wouldn’t be helping with the quilt, and the material was so expensive we’d be lucky to break even with raffle ticket proceeds.
    But, I sewed four leaf blocks for the guild’s quilt and assembled cross in a cross blocks for mine.
Stitch by stitch.
Block by block.
    Since the huge leaf quilt required much more time than meetings allowed, Pat organized Thursday sewing days at the shop.
    With wet hair from swimming laps, I powered my car up the rutted, snow covered driveway, and lugged my sewing machine into the shop.
    Only Pat and Linda sewed in the back room.
    “I didn’t think you’d come,” Pat said.
    “I emailed I would,” I said, set my machine on a table, and found an electric outlet.
    “When I came, I got stuck in the driveway.” Pat waved her arms over her head. “I had to get Gail’s husband to dig me out. So I emailed everyone not to come if they didn’t have four wheel drive.”
    I chuckled. “I didn’t get the email in the swimming pool, and I drive a Subaru. I made it up fine. What can I do?”
    Pat pulled a leaf block and a row of filler blocks off the design board. “Sew these together.”
    During an afternoon of attaching filler blocks to leaf blocks, I asked, “Will Fox’s quit shop let me rent one of their embroidery machines? I want to make the label for my quilt, and hand embroidery comes apart with time.”
    Linda looked up from the block she ripped apart. “No. You don’t have any training.” She set her pieces down. “But I’ll embroider one for you on my machine. Bring me the fabric and what you want the label to say.”
Rip by rip.
Row by row.
    At home, I lay each fall colored fabric against the bottom left block on the back, chose the bright yellow-gold, and ironed it for Linda. Then I wrote, crossed out words, checked spelling, and hand printed the label six times to space words just right and form the letters legibly for Linda.
Mansfield Park Quilt
Adapted with Love
for Spencer Charles
Janet Wells
Milledgeville, PA
2018

Letter by letter.
Word by word.
    With many thanks, I handed the paper and fabric to Linda at the next meeting. Ten of us had come to sew.
    Two members moved fabric blocks and rows of squares on the display board until the arrangement no longer resembled the picture of the falling leaf pattern.
    Sewers waited in line for assignments from movers.
    “Rip this seam” or “Attach these pieces.”
    We sewed and another member ironed seams.
    The hums of sewing machines mixed with laughter and the buzz of conversations.
   Pieces stitched together.
    “Oh, my,” Pat stuck her hands on her head. “We just have to attach the long middle seam and the top’s ready for the border.” She shook her head. “I don’t want to do that. No one will.”
    Sewing the last seam to hold the quilt together? Sounded fun to me. “I will.” I climbed the step stool to unpin the sections from the wall and lugged them to my machine. I tugged to stretch fabric so corners would meet. Then I lugged the ten foot by ten foot leaf quilt back to the board. With two members holding the sides, I climbed up the step stool and pinned our quilt top onto the display board. Awesome!
Move by move.
Section by section.
    At home, my quilt didn’t come together as fast as the guild’s. Hunkering over the sewing machine, I tread lightly on the foot pedal to keep stitching accurate. I missed more than once so ripped mismatched corners, trimmed raveling threads, and sewed again. I hooted the day I’d attached all thirty squares and eight rectangles to form the last of twelve Four Square 2 blocks. Progress!
    As if walking on cotton batting,I whistled to the mailbox. Inside lay a plastic bag with the yellow-gold fabric. Eager to see Linda’s embroidered label, I opened the bag and pulled out the fabric. Rich brown thread wrote the six lines with perfect spacing. But she spelled the first word in the second line “Aapted.” Pain.
    I shuffled back to the house, slumped into a chair, and stared at the fabric.
    My husband Spence looked up from his computer. “What’s wrong?”
    I handed him the label.
    “It looks nice,” he said handing the label back.
   “But she spelled ‘Adapted’ wrong! Do I dare ask her to make it again?”
    Spence frowned. “No. It’s fine. The mistake proves the label was handmade not from a factory in China. Relax.”
Mistake by mistake.
Try by try.
Mansfield Park Quilt Label
    Then, on Friday the thirteenth of April, Gail’s barn burned down and set the quilt shop ablaze.
End of Part 1

Sunday, May 6, 2018


Reflections on the Seventh Week of Spring – Grouchy
YMCA Caring Sign

Tuesday I frog-kicked on the gentle swells in the YMCA pool between two regular lap swimmers. Eva, a former lifeguard who hobbles down the steps then flits through the water like a comely shiner, swam freestyle in the far lane. Beside me in the wide middle section, Mike, a Mennonite, did sidestroke with arms only because he had weak legs after multiple surgeries. And closest to lifeguard Ryan, still wet from teaching preschoolers to swim before we’d arrived, three women marched and swung their arms through the water in the first lane. All of us were models of the signs on the pool wall:
Caring
Show a sincere concern for others
Respect
Follow the golden rule
    Then Jackie arrived.
    Strutting across the tile deck with her chest held high, Jackie wore an insulin pump like a corsage on the neckline of her bathing suit.
    To make room for her, Mike pushed his floating lane rope a foot closer to the exercising women. I pushed mine six inches closer to Eva.
    Jackie pulled on flippers and flutter kicked through the space between Mike and me.
    I kept my shoulder against the rope so I’d poke Eva, not Jackie, while we swam lengths.
    Into this collection of retired folks with sagging bellies and pale white complexions came a new swimmer―a young African American woman with a six foot, Olympic body clad in a teensy purple bikini. Hair knotted in a bun atop her head, she joined the exercising group and twisted her top torso from side to side while she marched―knees higher than a drum major―and expended an inspiring amount of energy. Her splashes joined the swishes of the lap swimmers and the burbles of the fountain circulating pool water.
    Jackie had her lane. All was right in the pool.
    Ten lengths later, waves smacked my sides when a swimmer thrashed passed me.
    Uh-oh. Lane positions had changed.
    I breast stroked to the shallow end and touched the wall in time to hear Jackie.
    “RYAN!” She stood with her back against the wall and her hands on her hips. “Why didn’t you do your job and tell me someone was swimming in my lane.”
    Sheesh. Either Jackie’s blood sugar went haywire again, or she never passed plays-well-with-others in kindergarten.
    The bikini swimmer halted three feet in front of Jackie. “Are there lanes?”
    LeeAnn, my shower buddy who packs a mini pistol in her bra when she hikes alone through park trails, answered from the exercise lane. “There are three lanes in the middle.”
    The woman spread her arms wide. “I moved from Florida yesterday. I didn’t know. Do I have to sign up for a lane?”
    Jackie stepped around the woman and swam away.
    Since I couldn’t put myself in the woman’s shoes―she was bare foot―and I wouldn’t visualize myself in her teensy purple bikini, I made an assumption based on our national climate of unconscious bias and fear of the other. I imagined she figured she’d been challenged for swimming while black.
    “You’re fine.” I stepped closer to the bewildered bikini swimmer. “She’s just grouchy.”
    I called to Eva. “May I share your lane so we can make room over here?”
    “No.” Eva frowned. “You do backstroke.”
    But, I didn’t argue, with my elbows pinned to my ribs and flapping my forearms like a wounded bird when I’m in a crowd.
    Eva turned toward Jackie. “I’d rather swim with Jackie.”
    Jackie veered away from the center and ducked under the rope.
    To give Eva and Jackie more room, I moved the rope a foot before asking the new swimmer, “Why did you move from Florida?”
    She grinned from ear to ear. “I got three great job offers. They were too good to pass up.”
    “Congratulations and welcome to Meadville.” I dove under and frog-kicked toward the deep end.
    Swish. Burble. I’d restored peace for the next five lengths.
    Then Mike left, and Jackie moved back to the middle.
    Heading toward the shallow end, I glimpsed Jackie standing against the wall.
    She talked at the bikini swimmer.
    With my head bobbing in and out of the water for breast stroke, I couldn’t hear her words. Maybe Jackie explained the rules of “swim and let swim as long as Jackie got her lane?”
    The bikini swimmer frowned.
    Maybe not.

    She and I reached the deep end at the same time. Ryan’s toes hung over the edge above her lane. I turned to sidestroke back and heard his firm deep voice. “You have as much right to be here as anyone else.”
   When I reached the shallow end, I pushed the rope back toward Eva to give Jackie extra room.
    The bikini swimmer did four more lengths and left.
    I finished my seventy-four lengths―five sixth of a mile―and headed up the tile stairs to the locker room.
    Jackie’s shouts pierced the hum of the fan and the whoosh of the shower.
    Had Jackie heard me call her “grouchy” so was angry with me again?
    Back in April, she had complained to other swimmers behind my back because I’d stood up for a nervous beginning swimmer who had chatted with me in the locker room.
    Jackie came to the pool ten minutes after us and put her flippers by the end of the far lane where the beginning swimmer gathered her courage for the long lap. “I need that lane. You’ll have to move.”
    The woman gasped.
    “She’s only swimming one lap,” I said.
    “Okay.” Jackie flicked her fingers toward the end of the pool. “Go ahead. I’ll cheer you on.”
    Clutching the side after every other back stroke, the woman inched down the lane.
    Jackie glared. “Your friend is a beginner.”
    “She’s not my friend. I just met her in the locker room.”
    “Well, she shouldn’t be in this lane.” Jackie shook her index finger at me. “It’s for lap swimmers.”
   “She’s swimming a lap, and she was here first.”
    Jackie humphed, dove into the water, and swam past the woman making her cringe, cling to the side, and progress down the lane even slower.
    “Next time you swim with her,” Jackie shouted at me when the woman finished. “It took her twelve minutes to do two lengths.”
    After three days of chatting with Jackie as if we were still swimming buddies, her anger subsided.
    Would she need three days to cool down after this incident with the bikini swimmer?
    LeeAnn hung her swim bag on the hook by the stall next to me. “Boy. Jackie was on a rampage again.”
    “Is she angry at me?” I rubbed a towel against my wet hair.
    “No. She’s angry at Ryan.” LeeAnn slipped out of her suit and rummaged in her bag for soap. “She apologized to Ryan for yelling at him then turned around and shouted to Eva complaining about how Ryan hadn’t done his job.”
    Glad I wasn’t at the hot end of Jackie’s anger, but sorry for Ryan, I toweled my arms dry. “I thought Jackie might have heard me tell the new swimmer Jackie was grouchy. I didn’t want the new woman thinking the incident was racial.”
    “It wasn’t racial.” LeeAnn turned on her shower. “Jackie’s mean to everyone. Someone ought to talk to her. She’s driving away the Y’s customers.”
    Jackie might have driven away the bikini swimmer away too.
    She hasn’t returned―yet.
YMCA Responsibility Sign

Sunday, April 29, 2018


Reflections on the Sixth Week of Spring – Simple Gifts
Charlie and George

I’d postponed many a to-do on my clipboard list for after the May 5th quilt show―
Plan 50th anniversary trip to Prince Edward Island.
Research candidates for May 15 primary election.
Wash windows.
But I never postponed―
Enjoy Charlie.
    Snuggled under the covers at 10:30 p.m. Monday, I listened to the wumph of the front door opening, swish-clink of taco chips falling into a bowl, and thud of footsteps walking down the hall.
    Our son Charlie had arrived.
    Yawning, I forced my groggy mind to push
Hand sew border to back of quilt.
lower on the clipboard list and visualized writing
Enjoy Charlie!!!
at the top.
    Tuesday morning, I woke to husband Spence’s hand on my shoulder. “I’m leaving for Cleveland. Play a game with Charlie.”
    At breakfast, Charlie’s head bent horizontal to the table.
    Could I ignite his charming conversation? “Do you think the Cavs can beat the Pacers?”
    “Don’t know.” He pushed his chair back and shuffled to the sliding glass door.
    So much for charming conversation. And he didn’t look like a fella ready for cribbage. “How are you feeling?”
    He turned his gray, drooping face toward me and frowned. “I didn’t sleep well last night.”
   No game. No conversation. Maybe he’d enjoy something cheery for his apartment. Maybe not, but . . .
    “Would you like to take some daffodils home?”
    His head jerked up, his eyes widened, and his answer surprised me as much as my question had surprised him. “Sure.”
    I pulled on a jacket and grabbed scissors. “Do you want to come for a daffodil walk?”
    Charlie didn’t answer. He scooped our cat George off the floor. In both arms, Charlie cradled George as if he were the newborn royal prince.
    With tummy and paws pointed toward the ceiling, George glared at Charlie’s face.
    Charlie smirked.
    Figuring I’d go alone, I slipped into boots, opened the front door, and stepped onto the porch.
   Carrying George, Charlie followed.
    I wasn’t going alone. Laughing, I fondled George’s ears.
    Wind chimes clanged.
    George swiveled his head.
    Charlie and I walked past the pansy planters, down the ramp, and out the gate.
    While I pushed the gate shut, George stared at it.
    Charlie jostled George. “Yeah. That’s the gate, and you’re on the wrong side.”
    Bending from the waist, I cut four of the double daffodils that Priscilla, Charlie’s grandma, had brought to Wells Wood years ago. I turned and waved the daffodils under George’s nose.
    His nostrils quivered at the sweet-tangy smell.
    Charlie chuckled.
    We moseyed through the front yard to the driveway. Gravel crunched under our feet.
    George squirmed in Charlie’s arms.
    “Do you want to carry him into the woods?”
    George lurched.
    Charlie tightened his hold. “No. He’s had enough.” Charlie climbed the porch steps, reached over the gate, and set George on the cement floor.
    Silently, Charlie and I followed the tractor path across the field. He paused to study the pump and the site of the old cabin where he’d eaten many a dinner with his grandparents. After his reverie, he flashed a sheepish grin.
    We headed into the woods. Bare tree branches towered overhead. Wet leaves cushioned our steps to where Priscilla had planted traditional trumpet daffodils. I crouched and cut half a dozen daffodils before we walked deeper into the woods.
    A rabbit rushed under the hemlock.
    A cardinal and phoebe sang a duet.
    Woodpeckers drummed.
    A robin chirped.
    Waving daffodils welcomed us when we climbed to the grassy knoll above Deer Creek. I inhaled the rain washed air, listened to water burble, and watched Charlie swivel his head to take in the scene. When he turned and smiled broadly at me, we walked back to the log house.
    Charlie opened the door.
    George dashed past us to get inside first.
    Charlie chuckled and swept George’s sister Emma off the great room floor.
    Cradled in Charlie’s arms, she purred.
    After filling a jar with water, I arranged the daffodils then hoisted the jar as if toasting our shared adventure. “Your grandma planted all of these. Well, Spence and I transplanted the double daffodils out front, but the flowers from the woods were where she put them.”
    Dimples tinged with pink, Charlie nodded and hugged Emma against his chest.
    “If you want to play a game―”
    He shook his head and lowered Emma to the floor. “I think I’ll lie down.”
    “A better idea.” I set the jar of daffodils on the table and hugged my man-child.
    Charlie walked down the hall and closed the guest room door.
    I climbed to the loft. With each stitch I took in the quilt for the May 5th show, my mind returned to the daffodil walk with Charlie.
    When Spence takes a daffodil walk with me, he recites “I wandered lonely as a cloud” in honor of Wordsworth’s 1802 daffodil walk with his sister Dorothy.
    But my daffodil walk with Charlie brought to mind,
    His company, his smile, and his reverence for the homestead are simple gifts.
George and the Daffodils